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Eugene,
I make myself confused now with my girl. She love me, but she hope i am happy with another.Maybe is my fault,i was used to my own single life and i do not want any interruption.But,girl very simple,so she tot i got another girl,i also admit i got another girl.Finally,she give up with our relationship alry, but she still loving and caring me.I am half way success now because i know she still caring and loving me, but she give up with our relationship alry.How to win her heart back?She still love me?I lost my confidence now to tell her what am i thinking.
I am going to change my lifestyle as i am preparing not to be single life anymore, my life will be included my girl with me. I know it takes time for it, but i hope i can do it before i together with her.I am preparing now, but it seem everything also need to change.Not easy for a single man to be changing to relationship man.
But, man must changing as to have a stable life with the girl you love and care.Even we still have some problems, but i know i love her, i will settle every problems with my girl.
"No problems in a relationship, that's not a relationship."
I appreciated this words from my bestbuddy.
I am looking good for our relationship and i will settle every problems with my girl, and we can proceed for another step.
Wish me luck.
Eugene,
You have a nice holiday, i also just back from my company's trip. Pretty nice there, my girl sure love it. I love your photos here pretty much, i am planning to go for a holiday with my girl coming in the end of the year.
(Will not let her go from me...)
不要让我们的生活留下遗憾, 别后悔..
用真诚打动她，把握幸福！
珍惜...
希望能把她捉紧，不想她这样就离开了！
感动 = 成功?
Wish me luck.Take action by next week.
Sorry my girl at heaven, i know you knock my head. But,i lost my confidence to win her heart back. What am i gonna to do now? She changing her mind now? Less words and less words from her, she is trying to step behind from me. No more worry and care from her. I rather she interrupt me now, but she keeping herself away from me. I know i hurt her badly. What gonna do now? I make her disappointed with me.
Eugene, what gonna do if the girl trying to step behind you? But you know she still loving and caring you. Also, she trying to get into another relationship to avoid me.
Am i awake too late? She give up in our relationship and trying to avoid me. How i gonna do to know what she thinking now?
要怎么样才能把一个伤心又心灰意冷的她追回来呢？
祝我好运.
"Eugene, what gonna do if the girl trying to step behind you? But you know she still loving and caring you. Also, she trying to get into another relationship to avoid me.?
Tensai, time to step in front of her then. Fair enough after you make her down first.
"But,girl very simple,so she tot i got another girl,i also admit i got another girl.Finally,she give up with our relationship alry."
another girl = girl in heaven?
Maybe try to make her understand, in the past, she might not involved in your life, but now you are 100% sure that in future, she is the one you want to be with for the rest of your life. And if you let her go now, you will regret in future.
希望她能给你一个机会，她现在就是你最重要的小事。
Maybe you can try to recall back every moments with her, try to make her touch by doing something that she will feel romantic but you think that very stupid =P, date her with the place she likes, or buy her something special. 感动她吧。
Everything related to her now is your 最重要的小事.
没有付出的感情是不会长久的。
Lastly, make her feel 感动 or 烦在于一线之间， as long as she is she still loving and caring you, then you still got chance, never give up. =), good luck.
Eugene,
I share before about my story at your 28 Aug post. My story is on 9 Sept.
1) 没有付出的感情是不会长久的。
I agree with you, because i never putting effort with the relationship and keeping make her down and disappointed. So, lastly she give up and jz hoping i have my own happy life.
2) Lastly, make her feel 感动 or 烦在于一线之间
Last time i always think she is annoying me with worrying me pretty much. But, when she is gonna gone away, i miss her worry with me. I never felt appreciate with her effort and care. I know i hurt her badly. So, she leave from me and avoid me now. I kinda worry her and miss her now. I worry she will hurt by the man, she is too innocent.
Eugene,
Yes, you are right, never give up. I should build up my confidence to win her heart back. Girl, you will blessing me too.
I will take action by next week, i know i must take action, do not wait anymore and make myself regret. I should not let her go from me, never regret in future.
Thank you Eugene, hope to bring a good news to you.
Wish me good luck.
Tensai,
You gonna stop her from leave, try to catch her back. Although you noe she still loving and caring you, but she can change it to another way of love, js like me myself with my girl. Do not regret in future, do not tot the girl noe what you tot. After a guy broke with the girl, the girl been hurt, the girl may not easily get back to you if you do not take her heart well. Man, you done your good job, because you change your lifestyle as to included her in your life. Man, single life no more with you, no worries, relationship life is much more better than single.
You will enjoying it in near future.
Eugene give me 5,
没有付出的感情是不会长久的。
Make her feel 感动...
Wish you good luck.
Eugene and eric,I sms her just now to ask how's the new reltionship with him, she replied:"她说她很累，现在心里没有我也没有他。"She still loving me? Am i make her tired and sad? What should i do?
Tensai,
You should not ask this from her, her heart is very easy to get hurt in this stage. i think she is tiring with the relationship now and trying to forget about you. You can get her heart by touching her and be there for her. Do not give up, do not make urself regret in future.
Wish you good luck.
You need to knw the 天时地利人和,要把握机会，珍惜.
You knw her much better than me, you should knw what to do.
Find her, let her knw your feelings, and be sensitive.
tensai said...
I sms her just now to ask how's the new reltionship with him, she replied:"她说她很累，现在心里没有我也没有他。
new reltionship with him? what is the purpose you ask her about this?
so that when she told you that they are not together, then only you will take your chance?
so that she will tell you that she love you actually, not him??
男人往往都是爱面子的，往往那一些懂得感动女生的男人都是脸皮厚的。
我不是叫你脸皮厚，至少你要拿出你的真心。
Maybe, you can hug her, and let her know, 我不会再让你离开我,我爱你。Remember 天时地利人和.
Tensai:
ur gal is in mess now.she doesnt know what to do n who to choose.Better of u choose for her.rather than let her choose.
so i will agree with Eugene..date her out and hug her in the right time and right place.even she struggle..:p
tell her
原来我最爱的人是你不是他。。
我不想让你有考虑的空间
我不会再让你离开我
ps:他以经是过去的美好回忆
可是我很了解now and future the one i want to be with is u not her
GOood Luck Tensai
她说她爱我爱得很累.
我对她的伤害很大，她已经不想再踏进我的生活了，她说我让她觉得很累，她很累.
She replied to me:
I love you, but i felt sick with our relationship. I feel unsafety and i have no more hope for our future. Times makes me feel a gap btw us, and i felt disappointed with our relationship. You might be a good friend, but you are not a good bf. Friendship is forever, but love is not forever for both of us.
She said she need times for herself now, she need a break for both of us. I should let her go? Or i should do something? What should i do?
Friendship is impossible for both of us......because my mind think of her everytime. She is not ouf of my mind forever...
She called me just now, she replied:
She is awake after me and him, she realized she is sick with both of us. To love and to be love, she rather to be alone now. She appreciate everything from me, and she appreciate me. She love me, forever and ever. But in this stage, she is tiring with our relationship. What she want now is to have a break btw. She said he is not included in her part of her path, so nothing related with him, she tot she can be forget me and to be love from him. But, when she meet something with him, she know she cannot forget me, she know how deep she love me. But, she gonna go now, she asking me to let her go now. She will be alright soon.
Finally everything end? I am sorry with her, no sad but sour and lost. I make her leave and hurt deeply with me. Why i hurt both of my girls?
"Appreciate", "Love", I shall learn it......
Anyone here,
Thank you so much for all the assistance with me and my girl. I should not let her hurt and tiring anymore. I heard from her voice that she is very tiring and falled to sick. I will give a break to her, then, i will come back with her. I will not give up with her. Never give up, yes you are right Eugene and Eric. While then, i will get ready for my relationship life and be prepare for her everything. This is what i can do for her. It takes time for a single man to be in a relationship, so while with this break, i can changing and get ready for everything. Let her know about my plans and future with her. Never regret and never let her go.
Thank you all of you.
Passed is passing, now and future i am planning for her. I will let her know i will be a good bf and good hubby for her in future. She included in my life now and future, everything we share and own together. Everything we solve together, no sad no disappointed with her, because only happiness i will give her.
Man,
Appreciate your love, do not let somebody important gone from your life. Never regret.
tensai said...
Friendship is impossible for both of us......because my mind think of her everytime. She is not ouf of my mind forever..
You should tell her that, not me.
曾經有一份至真既愛情擺係我面前，但我冇去珍惜，到冇左既時候先至後悔莫及，塵世間最痛苦莫過於此。如果個天可以比個機會我返轉頭既話，我會同個女仔講我愛佢；如果係都要係呢份愛加上一個期限，我希望係「一萬年」..
You can let her know that you regret for didn't appreciate her in the past, but you will never let this mistake happen again.
tensai said...
She said she need times for herself now, she need a break for both of us. I should let her go? Or i should do something? What should i do?
Why should you let her go? She didn't reject you, but just ask for a break, be patient, let her know that you are waiting for her.
Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
加油阿！！！！！
她说她爱我爱得很累.
我对她的伤害很大，她已经不想再踏进我的生活了，她说我让她觉得很累，她很累.
if this is the case..
i would say give her some break..
i m not asking u giving up..
but u can care her in another way such as support her,help her.let her feel that u alwasy be there to help and waiting..
Tensai,
She replied:-
1) 她说她爱我爱得很累.
我对她的伤害很大，她已经不想再踏进我的生活了，她说我让她觉得很累，她很累.
--> She is suffering with you and him. I guess she love you (but you hurt her badly) so, she is trying to forget you then to be love from him (but she feel her feeling). These make her feel suffering with you and him.
2) I love you, but i felt sick with our relationship.
--> She is just a temporary feeling tired with the relationship as she is putting too many love on you and the relationship. Just give her a break. She will get back to you.
3) Times makes me feel a gap btw us
--> You must support her and let her feel you are there with her and you are around her. Do not let the gap make her gone from your life.
4) Friendship is forever, but love is not forever for both of us.
--> She lost safety with you. So let her feel your love with her and your caring with her is around.
5) To love and to be love, she rather to be alone now.
--> I guess she is suffering now with her feeling and the relationship. Be there for her and let her feel your love.
6) Passed is passing, now and future i am planning for her. I will let her know i will be a good bf and good hubby for her in future. She included in my life now and future, everything we share and own together. Everything we solve together, no sad no disappointed with her, because only happiness i will give her.
Man,
Appreciate your love, do not let somebody important gone from your life. Never regret.
--> You alry have your decision in your mind, please do not let her go. Think twice before anything and do not regret in future.
Never give up with her if you still loving her. Do not let her leave from you. Please appreciate her, i wish you good luck with her.
珍惜,把握幸福!
"No problems in a relationship, that's not a relationship."
All the best to you and her.
No good news to share, result is failure.
She is steping away from my life, how to win her heart back? I missing her. Am i doing the right way to jz waiting and give us a break? But the break make our wall higher and higher.
Hmmm, i think what you need to do now is just give. And dun hope for return.
Since
"她说她很累，现在心里没有我也没有他。"
"她说我让她觉得很累，她很累."
Try this method then, if you sms her and ask about her, maybe she wil feel '烦' and 累.
Example of 烦, How are you 2day, do you still love me? can you give me a chance?
Example of give without asking for return, Hi, hope everything ok, i will give you a break on our relationship, but i will never give up, just to let you knw.
Good news to share with you here, i found my true love, that's you.
All the best.
If your sms need her to reply, maybe she will feel 烦, maybe u can call her lesser, anything that you want to share with her can do it after u date her out.
{No good news to share, result is failure.
She is steping away from my life, how to win her heart back? I missing her. Am i doing the right way to jz waiting and give us a break? But the break make our wall higher and higher.}
No good news = no bad news either, dun give up.
There is always a hope.
危机，why 危 added with 机? it is because 机 means 机会, so usually the other side of 危机 is 机会, 你要把握机会。
“Am i doing the right way to jz waiting and give us a break?”
jz waiting and give us a break = give her a chance to think and reconsider about the relationship of u and her.
But not break on your love and caring to her.
Remember what i told u?, 感动 or 烦在于一线之间, what you need to do now is to make her 感动 and not 烦.
Tensai, for you also, dun 烦 with the things that beyond your control, as long as you already did what you have to do. Then will be ok, result is out of your control.
Good luck, all the best.
Eugene,
Thank you so much for your kind advice. I get what you are trying to said, i hope i can manage to do it. Yes, maybe i make her feel tired and troublesome with me.Yes, sometime we cannot control what we tot and expected. I will give her time to rest and rethink. I am the one that make her feel badly and treat her badly with bad responce. But she still caring for me and be with me. I should awake early.
But, we seldom chat now (less sms, less call and less email), even at MSN Mesenger also lesser words from her. She seem like just passed by for greeting, and then she away from it. I cannot feel her care with me now, and feel the wall higher and higher. A lot of things hope to share with her, but seem like no chance to share. I am preparing myself for a relationship life, then only knocked my head to know how important she is with me. Without her caring, my life seem lack of something. No colorful no joyful, no perfect at all. How to cut this wall and stop the wall to be higher and higher?
Wish me luck and thank you.
Eugene,
She called me jz now. She calling for asking how's my life and works, and she concern me. And, she remember today is my annual dinner and annual personal report. We are sharing each other and concerning.
Just a short call, but it makes me feel excited and happy.
Do you think i still have chance with her? Yes, never give up and never regret. This is the way. I manage to get it.
Quite few days we never chat, i missing her, just a phone call warm my cold heart. I definitely sure my life is not perfect without her.
"No problems in a relationship, that's not a relationship."
(From my bestbuddy)
I will solving every problems with her.
Time for meeting now, then tonight will be date with her.
Wish me good luck.
Tensai,
Please get the real meaning of "Love".
Then you will not what to do now.
Remember, do not regret and do not let your girl gone from your life.
Wish you good luck, never give up.
Do not avoid, and do not control in love.
Jz let her know what you are thinking now, and what is your planning of relationship life.
Your world will not be perfect without her. Please do not wait until last minutes, please appreciate and do not regret.
We never know what happen by the next second.
Appreciate and Love.
Wish you good luck.
Remember what i told before:
Worry = Care = Love?
As she still caring you now, i guess you still have the chance, but please be careful of what kind of love now. She might changing her love to as a best friend love. Girl's heart is easy to get, but also easy to hurt.
For instance:
1) If you told her you have another girl with you, this is totally broke her heart with you.
(Btw, she knew about the girl is not appear? Please clearly explain to her)
2) Badly responce from you.
(She will remember the past, and she will worry to get into your life again)
3) No future with her
(This method is the top way to broke her heart)
If you done as above, please be careful to take care of the relationship and how you going to solve the problems with her. You should clearly explain to her, and let her know what you are thinking all the ways. Let her know you are not willing to hurt her, but all you done is just to hope she can be happy only. You do not want to hurt her.
All the best to you.
Tensai, good luck, you have so many friends here to support you. =). All the best.
Thank you, Eugene.
Eric, i done what you said. I will solving it, i understand what you trying to advise to me. Thank You.
We have a comfortable chat by last night. We are now as a best friend, will slowly come into her life again and bring her into my life again.
Thank you everyone.
After my work, i will have lunch with her. She is having stressful with her work. Be best friend now, will slowly step into our relationship.
Wish me good luck.
Eric, you are right. She worried to get into my life, because i always not free for her and always avoid her. Jz now she called me to postpone the date as she worried she interrupt me. And i know she tot i got gf, so she worried she might bringing trouble to me and her. Should i explain to her about the story? But, i think this is not a good timing to do anything with her. Well, finally she agreed to have lunch with me. Maybe let her know piece by piece dairy?
Wish me good luck.
Thank You.
Tensai,
Do not give up, try again with her.
Do not avoid, why gonna avoid with your love? In future, remember man to face with the fact and accept it as it come into your life. We canot control our love, and we canot expect it. Do not give up if your love out of your control and man you must try to solve it in +ve way. Do not make your love into complex and become trouble. It will brought -ve result for both of you. Take it easy man. The most important is do not tot too many of either -ve or +ve with love relationship with her. We canot predict love and no one can know what will happen for the next second. Thus, why we plan or control it?
Appreciate her and the moment with her. You are lucky because she is with you now, and you are having the chance with her. Not as me myself and my girl, we love each other, but we canot together. All just because of my stupid decision and behaviour. What a damn shit stupid man of me myself to let go my special angel. I hope no one will follow my way. So i try to help.
Man, be confidence with you yourself and try to be what as a man do with your girl. If you hurt her before, just go on to solve it with her. Tell her about your thinking (follow your feeling) and do not wait without any action, the time never wait for us. Your girl is waiting for your action, do not let her gone from you.
I wish you good luck!
Tensai,
Look forward to your good news to share with us.
Take it easy man, be confidence of you yourself. We support you.
Girl lost because she canot find your way and been ignore by you man, thus man just bringing your girl back to your life and do not let them lost again. You be the guidance of your girl, she need you now to guide her. Tell her what you planning now. Recall what you both sharing, how important she is in your life, your life is not perfect without her, and all the feeling you shared at here.
Girl is easy to get in touch, when she is touching, you must get your quick responce to say what you want to tell her and hug her. If she do not reject you, you are 70% successful. The rest is depending on the girl's thinking and love with you.
All the best to you, Tensai.
A special day for my girl by tomorrow.
< A noted for me myself after my girl,
Man is very stupid, because when totally lost, then only awake and pay attention of it. A lot of memory thinking of with her, i know i should not tot about it anymore, but i know i reli love her. But, we are impossible to get back and i never have the chance to share my love feeling with her. She is belonging to him, and he is loving her. I am not a good man when i was with her, so now i just wish to stay around her to wish she happy. A very stupid thinking, but this is what i hope to do with her. I swear i never let her feel one second of sad anymore.>
Eugene, can i leave my birthday wish to my girl:
Girl, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
I love you forever and ever.
I wish you happy everyday.
Thank you, Eugene.
Tensai,
Appreciate the chance with her and try what you can do with her. Be confidence with you yourself. I guess she is just temporary lossing after you and him. Just bringing her back to your life.
Look forward from you and good luck to you.
Thank you Eugene and Eric.
I will appreciate her and i will not let her gone from me.
I will not allow myself to let my girl leave from me anymore.
Thank you so much for all of you.
Hope to share my good news soon.
Tonight will have dinner with her and go to her house to help her repair her pc.
Looking good for our relationship now.
Wish i can successful.
Eric, i agree with you. I will not allow my girl to be sad anymore.
Wish me luck.
Yes, easy thinking.
Wish you good luck.
Eugene and Eric,
请告诉我,暂停算不算放弃?
She sms me jz a moment, she said:
"我感觉疲累了，工作和家庭的事令我透不过气。这几天谢谢你, 如果能早一点那该多好.....关于我们......我们可以暂停一下吗？"
Tensai,
I should say Congratulation to you. Never give up, i felt you still have the chance with her. But she is temporary lost now, you must bring her back to your life, do not let her gone.
You can share what you tot now with her, make her touching and make her feel comfortable with the relationship. She is tired now, you can let her feel comfortable with you and you can help her to solve everything or at least sharing with her.
I guess she is temporary lossing now, do not leave her, giving her full support. Let her feel your warm support and you never leave from her. Girl love feeling, and when girl get back the feeling, then you are half way successful.
Keep a tight attention with the chance with her, chance is very important now, difference time you should be as difference characters with her. Also, let her know about your planning, you wish to be with her now to solve her problems together.
Man, handle all your problems tactfully with her. Before you move into the next stage with her, you need to catch the good the good opportunity with her. You just lack of the opportunity and your timing is not good with her.
The opportunity would not only recreate some romantic memories but also brighten your life, as you both can successful in understanding each other better.
Wish you good luck.
You are in progress to be successful now, do not rush for it.
Tensai,
I guess now is your golden time, you must catch this chance well.
You can concern about her by sms, email or msn. Just let her feel you are here with her, although she is tiring now, but she need support now. Or you can call her to concern her, do not chat about love now. You both can chat about funny stuff to make her feel relax and comfortable. Just a short call would makes her feel better.
Do not too over of your action now, just hold on your full plan now. You can steping into your plan slowly, and bring her into your life slowly.
In whatever circumstances, do not give both of you as a long break without communication (girl's heart is easy to get, but easy to break), i experienced it with my girl. My myself as the damn stupid man to let go my girl.
Every problem sure stick with the solution, it depend on you man.
Wish you good luck.
Tensai,
Remember to think twice for everything, do not allow any regret decision in our life.
Follow your feeling, it will guide you how to proceed with your way.
We are waiting to hear your good news. All the best.
Remember,
“
不是每一段感情都有两次机会，我很感谢上天再给我一次的机会来弥补回我上一次过错，我会好好的珍惜这一次的机会，我爱你。”
=）。加油咯.
Yes, Eugene, agree with you.
Not everyone have the second chance, even if they have second chance but the timing is wrong.
So, we must appreciate.
Although she start to feel tired with you, but you and her are still here.
Do not rush for your plan, you just slowly steping into her life.
Give your full support to her, concern with her.
You are not win her heart now, but to recover her heart now.
Thus, be careful to take care of her heart, this is a very sensitive time. Everything can be change easily with her. If you found something difference from her (which is unusual), for instance: lesser sms, lesser call, lesser email, lessert MSN or lesser care and worry from her. Then, you must catch her with you, she will be changing her way if you careless with this time. She might feel to leave from your life, and letting you out (as she is trying to less care and worry about you = she is starting to getting away from your life circle)
Man, please appreciate your girl's care and worry. Do not think it as your trouble, no one will care for you if you are not important with them. Think it careful or on her side. Do not think -ve way for any responce from her, it might be just because of her bad status now. She is tired with everything now, so you can try to understand her and be with her to concern her. Full support giving to her.
Man, think twice for every decision and your action. Do not influence your relationship with her and do not let the wall getting higher. It's hard to lower the wall in future.
Wish you good luck.
Waiting for your good news to share.
Thank you Eugene and Eric,
Question to share:
1) I feel the wall is higher between us. She avoid me now, and she is lesser communicate with me. She always online by last time, but right now she is seldom online(when she online, we chat less, just a short greeting and short words, then will end the conversation) Less call and sms from her.
> what can i do now? Do i need to take any step on it to lesser the wall? Do i need to give her a break as she is tired now.
2) She is tired now, if i keep oontact with her everyday, i worried i might make her feel more tired. But if i give us a break, i worried something will be changing with us. And i reli worried her and hope i can help her.
3) I wish to do something with her and make her feel happy.
What can i do with her?
4) I wish to give her a happy weekend by this Saturday, what can i do?
5) How to keep her with me and on the othe way give her to rest?
Hope can get your kind advice and opinion with me.
Thank you so much!
last night msn:
> Hello
> Wish you are doing well.
> Take care.
> Need to sleep now.
> Good night.
Today msn:
> Hi
> How are you?
> Hope you are doing well.
> I am fine, thank you.
> Do take care of yourself.
> The weather is changing, be concern of your healthy.
> Thank you, i will take care too. Have to away now.
> Byebye.
Tensai,
All because of her tired mind now. She is tired, so you do not need to tot too much on it.
Her concern and caring still with you (lesser now because she is tired now), so do not need to worry. Let her feel your warm heart and light guidance.
You are on your way to success now because she still caring you. Do not rush for everything, do not tot too much, and think twice for every decision.
Remember, appreciate and do not regret.
Wish you good luck.
1) I feel the wall is higher between us. She avoid me now, and she is lesser communicate with me. She always online by last time, but right now she is seldom online(when she online, we chat less, just a short greeting and short words, then will end the conversation) Less call and sms from her.
> what can i do now? Do i need to take any step on it to lesser the wall? Do i need to give her a break as she is tired now.
Answer:
It is all about before and after, now you love her, so you are worry about everything, hiding everything that you feel she will unhappy, trying your best to fulfill her needs.
Many couples before and after are not the same. Why? It is because all are hiding behind the wall before paktor. Try to show yourself to her, don't pretend that she understand everything. Let her know how much you love her.
2) She is tired now, if i keep contact with her everyday, i worried i might make her feel more tired. But if i give us a break, i worried something will be changing with us. And i reli worried her and hope i can help her.
Answer:
Read my previous replied, try to give without asking for return.
3) I wish to do something with her and make her feel happy.
What can i do with her?
Answer:
I am sure you have happy moment with her before, try to remember the feelings, and maybe recall her back sometime, what people will usually do when someone lost their memory? Try to bring back the happy moment both of you together, sure it is still inside her mind, deeply.
4) I wish to give her a happy weekend by this Saturday, what can i do?
Answer:
Be yourself. Make her feel touch, 'Can I have my weekend together with you?' Maybe you can bring her to the place you go before with her, that had happy moment there..
5) How to keep her with me and on the othe way give her to rest?
Answer:
Sure she needs a rest, but have u ever heard of people feel tired because of receive gift? =).
Hi tensai, I not really sure whether I am helping you.
=). Hope I do.
All the best.
Thank you Eugene and Eric,
Actually i know i should not tot too much, and she is doing the right way because she tot i have gf now. Impossible she still be as before, also i am the fellow that ask her do not rely on me and she should walking out from me.
Man is very stupid, what a man said, but will regret later. Yes, i should be on her side to understand her well. She is suffering now, and i am the one that make her suffering.
I know what to do with her now. Just give her, do not hope for anything.
Question:
1) Am i need to explain to her about "the girl" is disappear?
2) How to i explain to her? I worry this might influence our relationship, so i am very careful with every decision and action.
Hope to get your advice.
Thank You so much.
It help me a lot and i understand much now.
所谓：“一人计短，二人计长”
Is better to think it alone, and this problem sure jam on some place.
Tensai,
1) You should not tot too much.
2) You should not expect she know everything, tell her what are you thinking now.
3) Share your feeling with her, do not pretend, and do not worry about success or failure.
4) You should not lie with her anymore about the girl, just share with her about the truth.
She can understand it, otherwise she will continue to avoid you and try to leave from you.
5) On her side, what is about you:-
-> You have gf now
-> You do not love her
-> You wish her to leave from you
-> You hurt her before
-> You feel troublesome with her
Man,
So, how can you expect she still be with you? You make her suffer now as to what are you thinking now. And, you still keep all the secret with her.
Take your action now to open the box now. Do not make yourself regret later.
Wish you good luck.
Take it easy man.
Man,
Please appreciate her, do not let her go. Until now she still caring for you (your story make me think of my girl). This is the truth, a true and deep love is very hard to get. Hope you can understand it and i wish you both can solve the problems soon. Do not let your girl suffering now.
Take action now to take your girl free from the suffering.
The more problems you solve with her, the deeply of the relationship with her. Solving the problems now, and do not let the problems make the relationship broken.
Appreciate it and catch her with you. Do not let go your hand.
All the best to you.
Eric,
"On her side, what is about you:-
-> You have gf now
-> You do not love her
-> You wish her to leave from you
-> You hurt her before
-> You feel troublesome with her"
But how can i solve this?
I regret about the passed.
What should i do now?
3 Steps:
坦然；
坦诚相对；
珍惜把握。
Man,
你要珍惜，
不要让你的幸福这样就消失了！
一定要亲口告诉她，
不要猜测，
不要再隐瞒了(Broke your secret box)
真诚对待她！(Don keep it)
愿你们幸福永远！
昨天让我知道了一个天大的误会！
天意弄人！为什么屋主现在才给我呢？
我为什么不好好弄清楚才离开呢？
一封信，一个决定。。
我和她就这样永远不能在一起了。。
原来她有写一封信给我。。
一年多前的信。。
她以为我收了，
而我并不知道。。
就这样石沉大海！
我真该死，为什么那么执着呢？！！
我真的对她太差了，
我既然让她一个人难过，
两年那么久。。她依然爱着我。。
而我也真该死。。
什么都烦啊烦。。最后什么都不用烦。。
要烦也没有了。。她离开了我！
相爱却不能在一起，
那种感觉很痛苦！
昨晚去同学会，看着他们亲密的感觉。。
你一口他一口。。
他逗你。。你甜蜜，
我的心好像突然好痛，
本来我也是如此幸福的！
So, i went back early,
You sms me,
Sorry i did not reply you,
I have million of words hope to tell you,
I hope to say i love you,
Can you come back to me?
Sorry?
Sorry to me?
No, i am the worse man to hurt you!
I am the one that needed to say sorry to you,
But, nothing i can say anymore to you......
我没有资格拥有你，
后悔？没有机会了，她已经拥有幸福了！
我们的误会，就让它这样吧。。
只要她幸福就好了。。
我。。什么都不能做。。
只能为她祝福。
我爱你！
所以，
Tensai,
要把握，不要等到没有机会了，
后悔没有补救的机会了，
你还有机会就要珍惜，
祝你好运！
Today i mc,
She also mc,
we sick,
we love,
but we cannot together.
Appreciate?
Love?
No more meaningful for my myself,
Without her,
my world just can't be perfect,
I love her forever and ever,
and she is forever wouldn't be with me,
She is belong to HIM,
i am totally lost her.
Why?
Because i am damn shit man, to let go my girl from me.
3 words for you man,
Appreciate, Love, Do not regret!!!
All The Best to you! Hope no more stupid man like me in this world!
Hope no more girl hurt like my girl!
Girl,
Sorry for the passed,
You never leave from me anymore!
Sorry, i broken my promise to you.
I tot of you again,
I feel sad again,
But,
I will take caring of myself.
Thank You my girl,
I love you!
Share your history,
Tell her your current feelings,
And promise her about future.
坦诚是必然的，but remember, all is about communication skills.
Maybe you can let her know that one of the reason you avoid her initially is because of what happened to the girl.....
Just an example..
Share with her face to face, 天时地利人和, it is because you need to clear all the misunderstanding with her instantly.
And let her know the reason you are sharing to her.
Eric, it is about freedom to choose, you are who you are, if you choose to be sad and regret then no buddy can help you. You just need to be happy, and appreciate your current girl friend.
We might made wrong decision before, but what you have to do is to live with the decision that you have already made.
哭着过不如笑着活,选择了快乐你就能拥有快乐.
You choose to leave her,
You choose to love her again now,
You choose to regret and sad.
I hope you will choose to be happy for your next step.
Eric,Thank You, hope you are fine.Eugene is right, be happy now.I believe your girl do not want you to sad like now, You have the sweet memory with her,this is belong to you and her.Wish you getting well soon.And, thank you for your help.Knock my head and i awake now.I will do what i need to do with her.Yes, Appreciate with her.I will catch her with me.Eugene,Thank You so much! I will share with her and nothing keep with me from me.She is everything from me,and i will give her happiness.Wish me good luck!I will share my good news with you soon. I hope next time when i sharing is the good news with her.Tomorrow will have a dinner with her (i help her to repair her pc)i will appreciate this time to share with her.Looking good for this relationship, actually now i feel that our relationship is very simple and all the trouble is making by us. "No problem in a relationship, that's not a relationship"
Every problem will have the solution, i will solving with her now and in every single part of our future.
Thank you everyone.
Thank you Eugene and Eric.
Nice to meet both of you.
Eric,
Never give up in our life,
hope you are getting well,
be stronger.
Eugene and Tensai,
Thank you for your advice!
I know and understand it well with me myself.
Yes, she just hope i can be happy only. And, she is happy now with HIM, so i must be happy also.
Yes, Tensai, you should be confidence by you yourself. You are on your way of successful.
Appreciate her, true and deeply love is hard to get and meet, do not let it go easily.
Take care of her heart carefully,
Remember,
Girl's heart is easy to get, but also easy to broke.
If she reject, but you still can wait for her. Love never calculate on give less or more. I understand it now deeply with me myself after i lost with her.
But,
SHE is forever and ever in my heart! All the best to her.
Wish she can be happy forever (i wish he can give her happiness and carry out everything with her)
Thank you everyone here.
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