Thursday, August 28, 2008

Happy Friday???

Today super dark, just happen an hour ago, after I back from lunch, I found out that I left my parking ticket inside my car, haih.., I have to do expenses report today, so force to get it, from office to my car is about 15 minutes walking distance, usually I will take shutter bus, but after a long wait, I decided to walk, after a long 15 minutes walk, finally, i reached my car, THEN, I found out that I left my car key on my desk. =S. THEN, I walked again for another 15 minutes back to office to get my car key. THEN. =......(, I repeated the same walk distance to get the parking ticket. WHYYYYYYYYYYY.


Part 2.
After I got my parking ticket, then, I drove my car and parked in front of the office building, that time was around 4.30 pm, THEN, guess what, I got my first warning letter because of illegal parking. =S. WHYYYYYYYYYY.

81 comments:

trinity14 said...

i know why...half of your mind is not around...that's why

Eugene Tan said...

?????

Eric said...

那是心不在焉的状况.

Eric said...

Somebody important influence your mind.

Jetiame said...

there are few song from 无印良品 which i like to share with you .enjoy ya
1.想见你
2.假装
3.没你的日子
4.胡思乱想

try to make sentence urself n see

Eugene Tan said...

Eric said...
那是心不在焉的状况.
ET: 可能吧。倒霉的一天。

Jetiame, a song for you, from
鄭中基 - 無賴.

Eric said...

We cannot control our mind to think, so do i. Tot alot, but js because somebody really important in our heart.We cannot control our mind not to think about it everyday. Anyhow,there is good for you, it means somebody in your heart now.Js maybe you trying to avoid it or dun get about it. Feel it from your heart maybe.Do not follow my step to regret about it in future.Good luck to you man.You noe wat i mean here.

Eric said...

Trying to think this "没你的日子"
,and be like this "爱很简单".

springmemories said...

Eric..
Trying to think this "没你的日子"
,and be like this "爱很简单".

May i know, what is the story behind? mind to share?

Eric said...

Me and my girl..
U can refer to my story at Eugene's website, a story from Eric
2 August.
Confused make me and her broken..
When she totally leave me far away..only i miss her.."没你的日子".
Now i noe how deep i love her and js simple tot.. "爱很简单".
If you dun worry, care or love her, why you tot of her everyday?
Worry = Care = Love.
But now only i noe it.Late alry.
NEVER REGRET AGAIN.I know i love her forever and ever.
Simple tot nw. 爱很简单, Love is simple why complex tot like me to hurt my girl forever?
All the best to you all.

WILSON said...

Chi Mien not around. Eugene fa ti tang...

Eric said...

For man that tot that he js care about the girl and hope she can be happy only, please believe that no man can js care about a girl without love.This is the truth.i can proof it as i experienced it.
Good luck to you man.

Eric said...

no man can be care about a girl without love, as me myself i experienced this, i hope nobody follow my step. No man can care about a girl without love even for a short time maybe, if for a long time as me myself, i am pretty sure your care with love, js ask you yourself. You yourself may noe the answer, do not avoid it as do i done,please believe it,you love the girl.
Tomoro my girl back to Malaysia.
i miss her so much.
Do not noe start from when i miss her, and hope she can interrupt me always.
Thus i know,
"爱很简单", js like now me myself.

Eric said...

although do not noe what i makes her feel deeply disappointed, mayb my ignore and cold with her, but i reli miss her care and worry to me. When a girl start to not mind about you and another girl, or start to put a gap btw you, and start to not too care and worry about you, please bcareful. She might changing her mind step by step, must quickly safe it if you still care about the relationship.Do not let her go.Do not regret.True advice from real experiences from me myself.
愿天下有情人永远幸福included my girl.

springmemories said...

Eric,
how if a guy start to keep a distance with the girl? din reply sms or sent sms...
the girl was trying to concern about the guy, and understand that the guy is busy with his study and works recently...
but wat she received was a message from the guy..
"I'm busy recently, no time to entertain u, you take care youself"
wat does mean??????

Eugene Tan said...

Eric,
愿天下有情人永远幸福included my girl.
ET: Your girl will 幸福, don't worry.

cheah,
"I'm busy recently, no time to entertain u, you take care youself"
meant that he is busy recently, and no time to entertain you. You have to take care of yourself. =).
请不要随便猜测。

“no time to entertain you.”
Usually i will say that when I feel some1 very 烦。
But, again, 请不要随便猜测, if you think unclear then just make everything clear, ask ask and ask, don't guessing.

I will away to Bangkok for a few days, wish me luck. =S.

springmemories said...

Eugene tan...
the girl try to have a meet to ask...
wat she get is, the guy said through sms
"need to seperate for a while, any problems pls settle yourself, dont give the problem back to him"
pls comment....
Good luck for your bangkok trip :P

Eric said...
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Eric said...

Cheah,
1) First comment for normal situation, as i don noe your fren well. Just as a guy's point of view:
Guys are very careless, just like me myself,i used to feel 烦 whenever my girl worry me and asking me something,as my works are very busy, so whenever she call me or msge to me, i will feel interruption. But, please take attention to all those guys that have same feeling as me myself, this is not correct and very bad to your girl!!!!!! Maybe you can try to pay more patience to him, maybe he is too busy and stressful with his works. Guys is very bad and always trying to control everything and keep away from 烦!Me myself also felt that we are BAD!But, i swear i will not repeat it anymore!
2) Secondly, the guys reply to you:
the guy said through sms
"need to seperate for a while, any problems pls settle yourself, dont give the problem back to him"

a) If he is a straight forward man: Maybe he do not noe how to use more suitable words only. SOme man are careless. So, do not think too much on it or keep guessing on it. Js give him sometime. Js forgive him and be patience with him as maybe he is just careless, he didn't mean anything for it.

b) If he is not, then he is bad! He really do not noe how to respect people, he is not a good perfect man for a girl. Guys that do not noe how to take care of a girl's heart and trying to hurt the girl, then he is not a good man! Love then must treat her good, if not, even as a friend also must respect! Do not waste time to putting more effort on him, just let it go. i think the man is not serious with you, and he is not a good man. Trust me, Just like me myself! I am a bad man, i hurt my girl deeply! 我把她的心都丢去大海!i always feel 烦 and ignore her, and do not take care of her heart! Finally she is far away from me, then DAMN SHIT of me myself only wake up SHIT!
i really love her now, i noe and understand how deep of her hurt and her hard with me when i ignore her and keep away from her. She is js trying to keep me happy all the while, but DAMN SHIT of me myself hurt her badly! She worry me, i feel 烦, she care for me, i feel 烦, she miss me, i feel 烦.......
But when i miss her, she be with me, when i need care, she care for me, when i in trouble, she support me......Thus, i am a BAD MAN!
Sorry to my girl, sorry very much to you! I love you forever and ever!

Attention for all man, please do not treat your girl like me, if the girl do not care for you, she will not worry you and contact you. Why you feel 烦 with the care and worry? When you in trouble, the girl with you, she do not feel 烦 with you, she worry you, she care for you, she be with you. But when she in trouble, you feel 烦 with her. She canbe patience, why a man feel 烦 for everything? Js take as example as your family, when you in trouble, only your family truly care for you and worry you. She is js as your family, she worry and care for you.
Cheah, i hope and sincerely wish you happy and good luck.
愿天下有情人永远幸福included my girl.

Eric said...
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Eric said...

在乎关心爱一个人,就要好好的对待他/她,别让他/她受委屈受伤!
在乎就是关心就是爱!希望天下有情人好好珍惜你身边的人,别让他/她走了,那后
悔已经来不及了。幸福是自己争取的,不要让你的幸福跑了。
愿天下有情人永远幸福included my girl.

Eugene, good luck for your bangkok trip. Also, good luck to you and your girl.

Eric said...

My girl js back, i felt she is not happy js now. She is sick after the holiday. i feel sad when i felt she is not happy and sick. i do not noe start from when i have the passed feeling that everything from herside, i care so much and i really can feel her feeling. Maybe she is no more belong to me and her heart is far away, so i trying to catch her back. Yes she is far away from me, her heart is belong to HIM. i falled to sick also, she care for me and brought me some sole throat candy. So caring. She said recently the weather is very hot and raining, she noe my works are busy, and i was careless and always late sleep. So she worry i get to sick, thus she prepared for me. Yes she always care for me. Although she trying to keep distance from me, but she still care for me. Js like last time when i broke with her and be best friend forever, she still trying to care for me all the while, and be with me. But i ignore her and treat her badly. Finally she is away, and keeping far and far from me day to day. I am a STUPID MAN.
Guys are fan jian, lost only appreciate! My girl is sick, i wish she can recover and she canbe happy. I do not noe why she is unhappy, but i really worry her. She do not tell me, she js trying to smile to me and telling me all the happy things. i remember last time she sure share with me. But now she alry not do it with me. Start from when? i cannot remember it, maybe long time alry, js i careless do not noe about it. Sorry my girl, i let you feel sad and hurt. Sorry, i wish i can do anything to make you feel happy. Please do not let my girl sad. I swear i will not let her feel sad anymore. Please wish my girl happy forever and ever. My Girl, i will with you forever and ever. You are my the only one angel, the god will not let the kind angel to be sad.

Eric said...
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Eric said...

cheah,
before you do anything, please think it twice. if you feel hard and hard, please reconsider whether the man is treat you good and serious with you. For those careless man, please paid attention here. Man must treat a girl good and care for the girl. Do not hurt a girl's heart deeply, please take care of her heart. A careless man must learn about it. For anything, please think twice before you decided. Please do not regret in future.
Also, second situation. Everyone have their own problem, maybe he is facing a serious problem, he is suffering now. So he need to be alone to settle the problem. He do not mean anything. So, you do not guessing it. Maybe you js give him sometime to be alone. He will looking for you soon. i believe it. Sorry, i do not noe him, so i cannot advise much, but you can trying to feel it and be more patience with him if you feel he is in trouble and he didn't mean anything for his words. Js give everyone a chance, and think twice. Do not break or decided anything before consider deeply. Remember. Good luck.
愿天下有情人永远幸福included my girl.

Eric said...

Advice for all man,
Be patience for everything around you. Simple way make everything done easily and feeling easy going for everything. No 烦 for everything around you man.

springmemories said...

Eric,
thank for leave so many comments..
The girl feel miserable, she dono wat should do,she had ask for a meet for discussion about the relationship,but the guy "try to" arrange as he is busy or tend to ignore(the girl not sure)....
then, sending the sms to for cooling period, and tell the girl don put the expectation on the relationship
what should she do?
give both sometime for peace of mind and think whether still got chance to continue??
or try to sms the guy to say something sweet to win him back?
the girl have lots of question mark inside in her heart.... she likes the guy although he always hurt her heart...

Eric said...

Poor girl,sorry about it.i hope u are fine,don't think much as mayb he reli in bad.Mayb u give him to b alone & urself rest time.i am pretty sure u very tired for trying making better in the relationship.
Cheah,
Js my opinion,do not take it much,u must review follow urs heart,as i do not noe ur fren much.But i guess ts is his first love?He is not mature enuf.Felt he is keeping himself away from anything.Anyway,maybe js let him to alone & knock his head.Also,let urself to rest,u are tired.
Good Luck to u.

Eric said...

Cheah,
Do not think much & complex on it.Maybe he reli in bad now.Everyone have their own problem.But,some of the man js bring everything back to the girl,and keeping himself away.
Cheah,
I wish u both can finally resolve the problem together.Must bring it out and discuss together.Anyhow,do not make it complex.The problem is js from himside,so let him settle by himself.Let him to b a mature responsible man to take care of you & the relationship.Give him time to b alone & rearrange his mind.
Good Luck to you

springmemories said...

Eric... thanks...
the girl did chat(MSN) with the guy...
the guy told the girl...
over care = stress....
the girl speechless..

Eric said...
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Eric said...

Cheah,
Js my point of view,but u still have to reevaluate.Think twice & appreciate everything.Mayb he reli in bad situation,he wana alone.Sometime for some strong long time single man donot need care much,js let him take care himself & b responsible in ths relationship.
For u urself,i noe u reli worry about him & js hope he happy.U feeling hard now,i believe all bcoz of his irresponsible attitude & he make unsafety feeling for ths relationship.
Js leave it,everything will b fine soon.He'll get back to u.

Eric said...

Let him get back to what he need to have with u,i believe is useless to do anything with him,so did i done with girl.I feel very烦&烦with her care & worry.Js wana ignore everything and b alone.Try to find more activities to fulfill all my time slots.Thus,my girl getting far & far with me.Damn Stupid of me,now only appreciate & regret.So,now i noe,worry = care = love.Only urs family & her will sincerely worry u & interrupt u.They do not ever feel烦with u when u are in trouble,but very worry u.This is true care.

Eric said...

愿你如你所愿,
Good Luck to u!
Do not keep guessing for a trouble man's words,it do not bring meaning.Bcoz his mind is either blank or complex.Full with bomb with him.So,js let him to b alone to settle his problem.After settle,he'll b fine & get back to u.Man need time to settle his complex feeling with the bz period now.Please forgive him and be patience with him.i believe he needs ur support well with him.Js be simple & follow urs heart.
Advice,
Be patience & simple with love,simple way make it done.
Best wishes

Eric said...

Some songs to you here, Cheah,
"一起走过的日子",
"一路上有你",
"爱很简单",
"Forever Love"
"明天会更好"

Good Luck to you, Cheah and all of you included my girl.
I wish my girl can fully recover from sick now.

springmemories said...

Eric..
thing is more complicated than u think...:(
the girl now, wat she can done is nothing(in fact, she dono wat to do besides waiting)
time pass, the girl's confident is getting less and less...
appreciate wat u have,but the girl think, does it worth to appreciate?

Eric said...

Cheah,
i know you feeling complex and sad now for the unsafety relationship with him. I wish he can awake and make it better with you. He is not mature enuf in the relationship, let him to have wat he should have in the relationship and do his responsible, maybe wat you can do is waiting and let him knock his head. But please do not swat yourself, take care. Sorry that i cannot help you, but i wish you can resolve your problem. Do not think too much on it, take it easy, i am pretty sure that you can resolve your problem.

Eric said...

Good luck to you!
愿天下有情人永远幸福included my girl.

springmemories said...

Eric,
Maybe I should tell you...
the house is not available actually,but the girl still like the house even though she is very clear the she wont own the house.
Maybe you might ask why, but the girl herself oso cant answer?
does it because this is the first house she like???
Anyway, thanks for your advises you leave...the girl really appreciate it...:P

Jetiame said...

nice song to share

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voccvFsW5Bo

Eric said...

The house not for sale,then why the house keep slot with u?I think the man is not serious with u and js playing around.As my point of view,pls do not step onward for the house,although we must appreciate,but remember the house is not for sale.First love is deeper,but maybe the timing problem.The man must take his responsible with his girl,and u must not step onward,the man is not serious with u.Hope u can review it clearly.
Anyway,Good luck to u.
My girl falled to sick alrd,wish she can recover soon.

Eric said...

My girl js called and sms me to care about my sick and away. I am feeling warm, and do not feel interrupt and think confused with too complex anymore as before. Maybe i am really DAMN STUPID MAN, fj to lost only appreciate. She is still sick, but still care about me and worry about me. And i know she is very busy, but still taking time to care about me, js as usual as she done for me all the while with me, then only DAMN me awake i am so lucky last time, js i am DAMN STUPID to ignore her. I know she is no more belong to me, but i know she is my only one girl forever and ever, i will with her. And i know she is caring me forever and ever. My girl, I love you forever and ever. Sorry about the passed..

Advice for Cheah,
I hope you can think clearly about the relationship with the man. He is not serious with you, and he is no longer available. One man only one heart, he is not taking his responsible in the relationship even with you or his girl. Please make it clearly and set a reminder with your mind. I guess you have urs answer. Good luck to you, Cheah.

Wish everyone can be happy with you belove. I wish my girl can be happy forever and ever and recover soon. Sorry to my girl, i do not do as i promised to you.

Eric said...

A song for my girl and all of you:-
"Forever Love"

Eugene Tan said...

Hi all, I am back. =).
cheah,
I think actually you know what you have to do, but just you 不舍得。
Maybe you can read my earlier blog on how to give up.
And please don't tell me again that 'theory is easy but application is hard', 都是借口。

1 method to share here, called 破釜沉舟, what you have to do is just make yourself no way to return. Tell him that you already clear and will continue your new life without him, and ask him please do not interrupt you in future by using sms maybe. The End.

很绝吗?不以为然,他给你的答复更绝,不要再婆妈了,不绝你是不会放弃的。如果他是感性的人,他就会回答你一些感性的答复,记得要不为所动。

WILSON said...

有CM和ET在,吾赛发蹄螳。两个爱情甜蜜专家,一定能帮eric决解问题。

Eric said...

Eugene, please allow me to sharing my words with my girl,
my girl please do not worry about it, any problem i will settle it for you, please get well soon.

Thank you all of you, for me and my girl, cannot help much aldy, because too late aldy. i am lucky before, jz i am DAMN STUPID to let her go. I make my girl hurted, and then, force her far and far away from me as i ignore and cold with her day by day. My DAMN SHIT bad attitude make her less and less rely on me and worry me even feel worry will interrupt me when she is in trouble. Thus now she have problem oso did not tell me, i feel that she is unhappy, i am sure is her hard works, the DAMN boss asked her to OT everyday without paying and do a lot of unrelated works. Now i js wish my girl can happy and healthy forever and ever. She falled to sick aldy. I wish i can with her now, i know is impossible aldy, too late for everything. She gotta get married soon, and her heart no longer belong to me. She said i am still the only one she will caring forever beside her family, should i feel happy? But, i feel like mango, anyhow, now js leave care with me...and i apreciate it and never let it go anymore. Never regret again!Since from when i start to sing this song quite often and falled in love with this song, "Forever love", girl can you feel it? Sorry i never appreciate before, sorry girl, thank you for still with me even i treat you badly, thank you for your caring, i swear i never leave you again, you are my the only girl, I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND EVER!

Wish my girl and everyone here,
愿天下有情人永远幸福included my girl.

springmemories said...

Dear Eugence & Eric..
This girl know wat to do already...
She will make a clear cut with the guy...
will inform your guys when she had proceed...
thank for you guys advise...
Happy to share our story here..
thank to Eugence...:P

Jetiame said...

Eric;
he gotta get married soon, and her heart no longer belong to me. She said i am still the only one she will caring forever beside her family.
sing this song quite often and falled in love with this song, "Forever love"


i think her care is just belong to sister and brother care..dun not think too much on it.SInce she will going to marry soon..I hope u know what u doing.u had regret for once..dun make urself regreted another time.dun be 3rd party..know where u r ,know where u stand..
of course u still can care abt her..but is just friend care ,or sister care nor love care..

回忆是美好得,extra inebriation,it just will make u suffer.

愛不疚

收藏在眼眸 常徘徊左右 爱猜到没有
愉快玩笑後 能全然退後 你开心就够

这种感觉太亲厚 讲一千句也不够
假使讲了你听到後 或会走
这种恋爱太罕有 不须真正拥有
成全 衷心祝福然後 就放手

放手 放开所有 彼此更自由
放手 其实我绝非爱得不够
放手 豁出所有 还有这个好友
已经 已经足够

遥远是宇宙 静静在背後 去看守就够
这种感觉太亲厚 讲一千句也不够
即使一刹有过冲动 挽你手
这种恋爱太罕有 不须真正拥有
成全 多舍不得仍然 是放手

放手 放开所有 彼此更自由
放手 其实我绝非爱得不够
放手 豁出所有 还有这个好友
已经 已经足够

放手 我的牵挂 找不到尽头
放手 期望你幸福甚麽都有
也许 爱很深厚 然而我早看得透
放手 至可拥有

sorry for saying that,i hope i guess wrong also.
all the best to u .

Eric said...

Yes, we are best friend forever. I will not be the third party, i am not a good man to be with her. I hurted her badly, so she had changed her love to as best friend and sister to be with me. I deeply know how deep i hurted her and make her far and far from me and decided to leave me and to be love with HIM. I am very sorry with her, but i still love her forever and ever. I wish i can be her forever angel to protect her forever and ever. Yes, never regret anymore. This is what i wish to do with her until forever as brother or her angel..just wish she can be happy.
Thank you, Jetiame.
Wish you all happy as well.
Good luck to you all.
My girl still sick, very worry her, wish she can recover soon.

Eric said...

Advice for all of you,
Do not regret in future, please appreciate the one beside you. You may regret like me, forever and ever. Please appreciate and think twice before anything.
Good luck to you all.
A song to my girl and to you all,
"爱很简单".

Unknown said...

Eric, I am feeling very touching to know you Eric, what a good truly love man with your angel.
Eric, the song "爱很简单" and "Freover Love" is belong to you and your angel. I think Eric you do not need to say sorry to your girl, as you said she do not blame on you, i guess she also hope you happy. This is not your fault, maybe the timing problem. I think your girl know it and she can feel your love and care from you. Girl is very sensitive, also very easy to get hurt with their border line and limitation. Maybe you have touch your girl border line without safe the relationship, so she away from the relationship, but she is not away from you because she still caring you as you said. Yes, i agree with you to appreciate for everything in our life. I am learning now with my be love. Thanks so much for your touching love story with your special angel, i learn very much from your story and the way you and her done.
Eric, i feel so glad to know in this world there is a man like you to love your girl so deeply and truly. Yours girl is very lucky too to be part of your life. Jetiama is right, 回忆是美好, you own the wonderful memory with your girl. This is belong to you and her. I am very sure: you and your special angel's love is forever, and the care never gone. You are appreciate now, you done it well, Eric. Good luck to you and wish your girl recover soon. All the best to you and your girl.

Unknown said...

Eric,
From your love story, i learn this:

有时爱也要及时,错过了就很难再回头。珍惜对方,珍惜我们所拥有的,不要让自
己后悔,那就后悔莫及。

Thank so much for your word "APPRECIATE", it is useful for me now. I learn from you a lot.

Unknown said...

Eric,
Tomorrow i will be going for a trip with my angel, after your story, i know what should i do with my angel. Thank you so much.
I will share my good news with you.

Eric said...
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Eric said...

Thank you, Aloha.
Good luck to you.
Sharing with you all here,
我现在的感受 ,
爱很简单,
用最真誠的心,
我想就这样牵着妳的手不放开,
爱能不能够永远单纯没有悲哀,
简简单单,
牵着你陪着我,
爱真的很簡單.

Eugene Tan said...

cheah said.
This girl know wat to do already...
She will make a clear cut with the guy.
will inform your guys when she had proceed.

Aloha said.
I will share my good news with you.

Hi Cheah and Aloha, all the best, Im looking forward for your sharing.

Eric said...
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Tensai said...

Appreciate? Regret in life? Confused? Our life is only one time, no more chance and no return for everything that been passed.

Eric, you still have the chance to meet her and she is still with you. Mine is extremely lost in this world, she met an accident at Canada. Appreciate? Everyone can say, not everyone know the meaning, just like me. Regret? When you extremely lost, then only regret? But, she know it? No, she forever will not know it.

Lost her and she is forever will not back anymore, why i do not let her know i love her actually? Why i dun ask her not to leave from me? Last chance to meet her also in 30 minutes only. Why i avoid her? So, she went to heaven and do not want to see me anymore.

Sad? Regret? Never, i never cry for her and anything. Why? This is what i can do for her. I know her feeling from her diary, she just wanna me to be happy, i avoid her, so she away from me.

Please get the real meaning of appreciate, please do not regret, nobody can know what happen by the next minute to you or your beloved. No if..no why..no regret..no again..no blame.. BUT TO APPRECIATED!

Tensai said...

Eric,
爱很简单? Why? This is because both side appreciate the relationship and appreciate each other. But, we both know the meaning only after we experienced to lost it, when we have it, we do not awake it. I guess Eric you can get what i mean. No best wishes to you because you are a lucky man with your angel with you.
Eric,
Go ahead for what you feel now.

Tensai said...

Good luck to you, Aloha. Same feeling with Eric,
"Forever Love' and "爱很简单".

Eric said...

Tensai,
Sorry with your story, i hope you are fine man. Yes, i myself agree with what you trying to say and thank you for your encourange. Yes, i am a lucky man. You are right man. Nothing, but to appreciate!
All the best to you man and all of you.
Thank you Eugene.

Eugene Tan said...

Hi tensai, sorry to hear that, we cannot change the past, but we can change our future, 珍惜。

'Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present.'

Appreciate what you have now and please do what you have to do now because you never know what is going to happen tomorrow.

Tensai said...

Eugene,
Thanks for it. Maybe i was sad until i forget what is the feeling of sad. Without her, nothing is perfect, nothing i am interesting on it. Everything just lack of something with me. By the way, thank you.
Eugene said:
'Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present.'

Appreciate what you have now and please do what you have to do now because you never know what is going to happen tomorrow.

Yes, you are right. All of us learning appreciate day by day after we lost it before. Eric and Eugene, hope both of you get the meaning of appreciate. There is not easy to get the real meaning just like me. Totally lost, and she forever will not know what am i thinking and what i wanna tell her. I never know how important of sharing, but she always the one that love to share with me. I have let go the chance and let her go far far away from me.
Nothing, but appreciate for all the things around us.
Good luck to you all.

Unknown said...

Eugeme said,
We cannot change the past, but we can change our future, 珍惜。

'Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present.'

Appreciate what you have now and please do what you have to do now because you never know what is going to happen tomorrow.

Eugene,
I agree with you, never let her go if you love her. Appreciate, never regret in our life because we never know what is going to happen in next second.

Eugene, Eric and Tensai,
There is pretty touching to know about your story here. I know what to do with my girl. I should appreciate her, why i let her go from me as i concern her a lot. I am so lucky to share your story here and let me understand what to do with my girl.
Hope to share my good news with you all soon. I am going to give her surprise during her birthday coming soon.

Eric said...

Anyhow, just think carefully and do not let your girl go off if you concern her. Love is just simple, do not make it complex with your girl. Never regret in our decision and life, never simple make any decision. Think twice before make it. I am learning to appreciate now, Tensai, thank you for your story, i get what you trying to say.
Eugene, thank you, you are right, nobody know what happened by tomorrow. Appreciate, all of us learning appreciate, thus will not regret in future.

Unknown said...

Eric,
Your blog already deleted?I just came back from company project, then your blog gone already.
I have a problem with myself and my girl, i have no idea about it. i hope you can give me some comment on it.
Do you remember my story? Almost same with you, but we just broke few months ago, and now we maintain as best friend. I know what i thinking now clearly, no more confused, but now she told me that she might gonna try to start on another relationship because i am the one that asking her to try for a new relationship if she meet any good man. Now she told me that the man is very good, and the man caring for her very much.
What should i do? She still loving me? I can feel she still concern me for everything, but she leave from me now and she gonna try on another relationship.
Eugene, i wish you can advise me too. I really love her and i do not want to lost her.

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Eugene Tan said...

Hi Sam, what are you waiting for?
don't give yourself a chance to regret. Tell her now that you love her before it is too late.
You might not be succeed, but at least you try.

Maybe you can bring her out for shopping, and tell her that you are hoping for a new life, wanna propose with someone that you love in deep.
Ask for her advise, on what to buy.

Then dinner time, you take out the gift, and give back to her. Then she will understand. Make sure everything happen in a day. Remember to let her know how deep you fall in love with her, and cannot live without her. Don't make assumption that she will know.

"Do you remember my story? Almost same with you, but we just broke few months ago"

Maybe you can share with us more on your story, on why you broke up with her. =). Good luck my friend.

Eric said...

Wonderful day, because I js received a msg from my girl about the mooncake festival greeting msg. Sorry, i never bring you for any firework as i promised to you, but my wish never gone from you.
Wish you happy mooncake festival with him...

Sam,
Thank you for your kind support with my blog. Yes i still remember your story because your story almost same with mine. But, mine is too late. There is pretty good to hear from you to clear on your mind alry. Sorry i had deleted my blog alry because someone from our friends knew about this blog, so i deleted everything, i do not want my girl to worry me anymore. I js wish she happy only. So, everything i might js leave at somewhere around, i will inform for my new blog soon.

Eugene,
Thank you for letting me sharing my story and feeling.

Sam,
Eugene is right, what are you waiting for? I was too late to catch her heart back, but you are not, you still have the chance to win her heart back. Do not regret js like me, if i have the chance as you, i never let her go anymore.

Sam, do you remember what did you share with me last time? You said you confused with her, and you feel not used to your new life because everything will be tag with her after you both in a relationship. Sam, i believe now you get my commnent as there is not troublesome, do not make it complex. There is pretty good to have a stable life with her. She js as your family to be with you all the way, do you think after you both get married, you do not wish her to worry, care and be there for you like this?
Worry = Care = Love.
Only your family and her will be care for you much and truly. Sam, both of you love each other in 8 years alry, although you both js get into a relationship for few months, and broke for few months, but do you think you wanna deleted her in your world? You wanna be the passed to love her secretly and she also love you, both of you love each other, but do not together? I think this is very stupid if both of you love each other together, but never appreciate. Sorry to say about it, but i js do not want you to regret in future. You know my comment always very straight to the point, never turn around to tell you. I js hope i can help you and her.

Sam,
please appreciate this relationship, do not regret in future. Do not let yourself have a chance to regret in future, nobody know what happen by the next minute, even next second. Let her know what is your thinking now, what happened with you to broke with her, and what is your planning for near future. Just share with her, do not let her go.
She still care for you, right? Care mean love, what is the meaning behind that she let you know she wanna start a new relationship with the man? I believe for those couple that js broke up, they never share about this to each other, unless they still love each other. When you love each other, something will be difference from a friend's point of view.

Last,
I wish you can get what i mean, and take your immediate action with her. Do not wait for it anymore, man and girl is difference i guess, do not hurt your girl. Please appreciate everything around us, do not let it go.
愿天下有情人终成眷属.

Tensai said...

Sam,
Do not let yourself to regret for it. Do not wait for it anymore, nobody know what will happen later, even just passing one day, everything will be difference totally. After i met my girl, the next day she went to Canada, then there is forever last day for us. We never have a chance to meet each other anymore, she is gone away. You still have the chance to share what are you thinking now. I have no chance to share with her, she never know what i thinking. Happy, sad, angry, disappointed, down, anything...she never know anymore...
so, what are you waiting for?

DO NOT REGRET, BUT APPRECIATE!DO NOT LET HER GO.
All the best to you.

springmemories said...

Dear all,
不要让我们的生活留下遗憾!



中秋节快乐...
所有有情人终成眷属!

Eugene Tan said...

I am going to HongKong for holiday.
Good luck to all.

祝大家中秋节快乐!!!! =)

Tensai said...
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Tensai said...

Dear all,

珍惜眼前人,把幸福捉紧,把她追回来,别后悔!

祝: 有情人终成眷属!

中秋节快乐!

Tensai said...

Eugene, and Eric,
Thank you for sharing. Hope more good news to share together.

Tensai said...

Dear all,

After year by year, finally i know what to do and i should release myself with you at heaven. You are feeling tired, i should let you leave from me. Tonight i will take action with her, sorry about her. Maybe my girl know that i am lonely, so sending her to be with me to care for me. Sorry, i cannot forget you, how long you gone from me? I cannot remember how long, and how sad i am, but i know how deep i love you.

Last night i met with your brother and get your remaining stuff and some letter to me, i know what to do, i had completed everything you wish to do, i wish you can be happy over there. Sorry, this is what i can do for you. I promise i will be happy.

I will start my new life, i know this is what you hope, i know what to do. You will support me right there, i know you will bless me from heaven too.

Thank you eugene and eric, thank you for your story and comment with others, i learning from here. I will not let someone important for me to go anymore from me, i know what to do now. I know i cannot compare her with you, sorry my girl, i promise i will giving my full heart to her and be happy with her.
Thank you for everything. Good luck to you all as well.

Tensai said...

但要怎么样才能把一个伤心又心灰意冷的她追回来呢?
祝我好运。

Eric said...

用你的真诚打动她,很开心你能把握你的幸福!
我相信另一个她会在天堂祝福你和她!

Jetiame said...
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Jetiame said...

Eric:用你的真诚打动她

YEah

有信心未必得,但没信心肯定晤得..

Unknown said...

Thank you so much to all of you. I will squeeze my head for awakening, and do what i must do now with her. Wish me luck for it.
I will share my good news in near coming soon.
Yes, Tensai, 用你的真诚打动她.
Good luck to you.

Eugene Tan said...

Good Luck to all, try to make her touch, girlgirl actually very simple, just show them who you are, don't hide your feeling infront of them, they can feel it.

感动 = 成功。Can u see the similarity of these 2 words? =).